“I Own and Completely Control Your Cock Masturbation Instruction”

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Ruby keeps her slave under constant control and on the very edge throughout the entire scene. She teases him stroking his cock with a condom on until she finally gives him permission to cum. At that time she continues to stroke his sensitive cock.

There are *way* too many tease and denial scenes that simply rely on specific hand movements or clinical sounding talk from the female. They frequently will stroke real fast, real hard or they twist their wrist some special way while placing the thumb and forefinger of their other hand on the “golden spot” and call that cock teasing. Maybe in a very literal sense thats “cock teasing’ since the male is represented by his cock and its the only thing he has that does anything useful. But even my ruined orgasm methods are all pointless hand movements UNLESS they are preceded with some REAL HEADPLAY. How many times have you watched a Tease & Denial and the girl who is doing the teasing has a look on her face like she’s playing scrabble… with her GrandMother?

Cock Teasing is a psychological and emotional game and the harder you laugh at the man the better you are at it!

The game isn’t Scrabble either! Make a show of it! Get into his head, his thoughts, his emotions and only then does ruining his orgasm really live up to its name! Saying the right things and filling his head up with words designed to fuck up what he THINKS is going to happen or what he THINKS you are thinking is great but thats not even essential because body language and sensuality can relay all sorts of misleading messages that can be later used against him.

“Fucking With His Head” was an insanely popular clip of mine that is a great example how a simple abandoned orgasm can be made many times more traumatic by fucking with BOTH his HEADS.

I’ll post a sample of that clip.

Of course it can be used with pretty much any size cock but really the move is born out of necessity with the large member and with the smallish one it becomes simply a personal style.

A second reason palming can be effective in playing with the head of a victim it can hide the head of the cock from view so he can’t see what’s happening to him. If he’s been properly prepared before hand he’s probably uber-sensitive and can’t correctly discern what is going on. This may be a good opportunity to “pretend” you are putting a piece of proken glass, a burning ember or a dollop of IcyHot in your palm and make sure he sees it a split second before you slam your hand down on the head.
ITS EVEN FUNNIER THAN IT SOUNDS AND IT REALLY RUINS THAT ORGASM FOR HIM!

This method is the easiest and one of the most common because it can be applied from most standard jerking hand positions.

Its also easily applied when trying to surprise or “spring” a ruined orgasm on the male.

The goal of thumbing is to to block the flow of ejaculate but it is much more than that as is true with all ruined orgasms if executed properly.

There is a group that says blocking the flow of ejaculate completely can cause permanent internal damage to the *oh so sensitive* male organs.

Another faction insists there is no damage that could take place during a thumbing or any other method designed to block the ejaculate flow.

In reality BOTH SIDES COMPLETELY MISS THE POINT BEHIND RUINED ORGASMS. Here’s a list of keywords to illustrate…

Rewarding
Theatrics
Trust
Oblivious
Drama
Unaware
Pressure
Impending
Ecstasy
Precipice
Fail-Safe
Misdirection
Surprise
Shock
Horror
Regret
Dominated

Its all a cruel, but VERY funny, game and in the end the harder you laugh at him the better you are at it.

Ruining a male’s orgasm after extended periods of denial can be much more psychologically damaging as it inflates the hopes and causes the feeling of extreme elation until suddenly all is lost and the clock is reset so to speak. This happens without the hugely memorable “monster” orgasm that is to be expected from sustained denial.

Some men begin to enjoy the teasing aspect of the denial period and take it in stride as they emotionally build upon that hope of the future release of all that pressure. Turning the tables on him can put control back 100% in her hands.

To perform an abandoned orgasm one lets go of the cock and halts all stimulation right at the moment of orgasm or a few beats before but at a point where there is no return and lets the cock just spasm, jerk and bob its way through an extremely unsatisfying orgasm.